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ONLINE: Creative Sadism: It Hurts So Good!

July 19, 2021 @ 8:00 pm 10:00 pm

Mon, July 19, 2021 – 8:00 PM – 10:00 PM CDT

Join us in a discussion on different types of pain, how pain can enhance D/s, how to hurt safely, and more!

About this event

Wicked Grounds Annex

Note: This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. No on-site tickets will be available.

If your juices flow from watching and causing agony and discomfort, this class is for you. We’ll discuss and demonstrate different types of pain, how pain can enhance D/s, using pain for your pleasure, how to hurt safely, to mark or not, helping your masochist take more, and aftercare for everyone. Come share your tips and tricks with the rest of us; experienced and novice players welcome, although the demos will be somewhat advanced and will include blood play.


Marilyn has been active in the San Francisco Leather/BDSM community since 1986. She is a sadist, a bitch, and a mistress. She likes to play hard and has a special affection for slut masochists. Marilyn was a member of the Outcasts and a charter member of the Exiles, and has spent many years as an Exiles officer. She has presented at International Ms. Leather, Foundations, Leather Leadership Conference, Northwest Leather Celebration, Southeast Leatherfest, Sin in the City, Dark Odyssey: Surrender, San Francisco State, Leather Traditions, Black Rose, Venus’ Playground, Leather Levi Weekend, SF Citadel, Butch Voices, The Group In Fresno, and the Exiles. She loves her leather family which includes her slave and her boi. In her vanilla life she is a computer professional with two queer adult children, and is a Trustee at her synagogue.

Rio is a butch leatherdyke, a hopeless romantic, and a masochistic slave who’s obsessed with service. She was Ms. San Francisco Sober Leather 2016, and the female Leather Marshall at the 2015 San Francisco Pride Parade. She currently serves as an officer of the Exiles, is an organizational director of the San Francisco Bay Area Leather Alliance, and is on the Board of the Friends of Eagle Plaza. Feeding her passion for both education and exhibitionism, she has presented at Folsom Street’s Playground, the Northwest Leather Celebration, Southeast Leatherfest, and at numerous regional events. She also demo bottoms across the country, usually under the hands of her sadistic Mistress, Marilyn.

Simcha has been active in the Leather/BDSM community since 2014. She found the community a little later in life but jumped in with both feet to make up for lost time and knew she had found where she belongs. Simcha identifies as a leather dyke, slave boi, feminist, masochistic slut, romantic and is very happy when being dominated by a fierce femme domme. She likes to play very hard, have her boundaries pushed, and loves being in service to her Ma’am, especially as her demo bottom. She is polyamorous in a leather family that includes her beautifully sadistic Ma’am and Ma’am’s slave. Simcha is an Exiles officer, and has been the assistant producer of the Ms. SF Leather contest for several years. She has taught at Sin in the City, Foundations, FLAG, Southeast LeatherFest, IMsLBB and the Exiles. She is a member of Mama’s Family as “Mama’s Naughti Boi”. She has taught throughout her professional career, and is an award-winning trainer.


Tickets: $15 – $35 in advance through Eventbrite until the start of class. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford.

We offer a sliding scale, so that cost is not a barrier to attendance.

The regular ticket is $25. This is what most people should pay.

The $15 ticket is offered for those for whom the $25 ticket would be a barrier to participation. If $25 is too much, we take your word for it! Just pay $15.

Have a great salary? Feeling generous? Paying at the $35 level allows us to make the discounted ticketing available to others who need it.

So – that’s it! Choose the level you can comfortably afford.


This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will not be recorded and is not available for later viewing.

Zoom now provides closed captioning which will be available for this event.

$15 – $35 in advance

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