Kate Oliver, Facilitator and Coach


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CLICK: Couples, Men’s, and Women’s intimacy coaching 

Kate Oliver, LPE is a Licensed Professional Educator (2005), Clinical Sexologist (2017), and Founding President of The KINDer Foundation (2020) – a charity dedicated to sexEd and ethics so adults and parents can normalize conversations around sex, sexuality, gender, safety, and health.  She is improving the world’s understanding and education about sex by providing a private e-commerce platform so sex leaders and people of wisdom from around the world have a reliable sexuality self-help resource library and anonymous chatroom for all who are curious or confused (conventions, seminars, expo’s, etc.)

She hopes to create a roar among many authentic sexually empowered people who communicate their emotions, intentions, boundaries, and vulnerabilities in a world where lifestyle, kink, and poly-coupling is understood, accepted, and repaired within a sex-positive society rather than the isolated, rejected, and humiliated path that it has experienced.

Kate enjoys helping others bring intimacy to a variety of relationships from the vanilla mainstream to the kinky.  While learning from non-traditional lifestyles and subcultures to develop the intimate life they’ve always wanted by teaching skills used both in and outside the bedroom. Her goal is to normalize talking about sex so that people are more comfortable to speak up and ask for what they want and can tell someone when they’re feeling unsafe!

Got a question? You can anonymously submit your questions to us here or in the Discord chatroom. Remember The NEXT Talk: crucial conversations with Kate, airs Sunday morning at 10:30am central, or to tune into her show here if you miss it! Top of Form

Favorite Sayings:
If you can’t be kind, at least have the decency to be vague. It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to be kind to others.

Sex deserves more than just a single conversation, so talking about sex(uality) all day is what I do!  Our time together may become one of your greatest experiences in learning.  Get in touch!

Hello all, It’s a pleasure. I am Kate, an LPE (licensed professional educator, 2005)  and a self-concept focused clinical sexologist (2017).  I practice erotic embodiment and personal growth alternatives with single individuals, couples and groups (including transgender persons, LGBTQA+ members, those in the lifestyle, any one exploring kink/fetish and polycule relationships, or group outings).

Working with relationships in the lifestyle and kink communities is like sailing a ship in deep ocean waters, and they say stormy seas make the best sailors; so whether you feel stuck in a routine, you want to address a particular sex related concern or you simply wish to explore ways to achieve intimacy,  having professional and supportive guidance gives you more confidence in relationships as you learn to sail your ship into emotional, sensual, and erotic clarity.

Great singers hire singing coaches, great athletes hire personal trainers, and those who have a desire to dive deep and explore to enhance aspects of their intimate lives – well, they hire me.  Amazing individuals from around the world learn to communicate better, clear up misunderstandings, and resolve ongoing conflicts with themselves.   Once their rational and relational needs were intimately seen they go from feeling ignored to being adored.

  • This coaching promotes living a more authentic and balanced life of self-honoring, acceptance, and healthy boundary formation.  I love teaching how to accept our fantasy side, clearly ask for desires and cravings, gain & respect consent, and be responsible for our own pleasure practice while in a safe, collaborative, and compassionate environment.  I center my focus and intuition on your desired goal while holding safe space for vulnerability when details surface.
  • Suite 108’s Experience Embodiment sessions on Lake Michigan are designed for 1:1, couples+ and private events to empower individuals and couples+ to reach their goal.  During the experience you will learn the rules of consent and engagement, identify your comfort and modesty boundaries, & practice safety measures.  (This yacht tours 2-4 hours casting off from 5900 Lakeshore Drive.)
  • I will always give you the respect of my full attention, so please be honest about your intentions.  PayPal will retain 50% of the session’s rate if you don’t show on the date.

“Human Sexuality is beautifully diverse. If we can clarify our sexual values and challenge faulty or limiting beliefs, making more informed choices about sexuality, better assessing risk, and clarifying boundaries in healthy relationships allows each of us to embrace further discovery and growth. Ultimately, we uncover our sexual value of shame and judgement by normalizing conversations about sex, sexual health, self-care and intimacy in relationships.”

Kate’s creative, whole person healing approach will clarify your desires, help communicate your intentions, resolve internal struggle and finally get your needs met.

Kate encourages you to drop into pleasure and allows you the space to come home and embrace your sexuality as creative erotic energy, acknowledge your shadow side and allow creativity to surface.  Discover your Authenticity, Self-Intimacy, Eroticism and Passion in less than 6 sessions.




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